This area of "restraint" is so essentially a matter not only
of individual choice but perfect fit - it is often better left to the
ingenuity of the do-it-yourself enthusiast to make up equipment - if
only in prototype. The wide range of "Toys" available from
shops and by mail-order either fit or they don't. Adjustability is not
a feature of most items.
Genital
Bondage falls into three basic categories: Self-stimulation, prevention
of masturbation and enforced chastity. Many aspects of these three are
better covered in the NOTES ON CHASTITY BELTS. This sheet aims to focus
on different ways of actually wrapping or restraining the male sexual
organ as an erotic experience.
SAFETY FACTORS:
The usual note about safe and sane 'bondage' applies even more seriously
to genital bondage. Interrupted blood circulation can very quickly cause
serious permanent damage. Even temporary, superficial skin abrasion
on the sexual organs can lead to loss of pleasure if nothing more, and
inhibit activities for a considerable time. Particularly when genitals
are covered while in 'bondage', careful monitoring is essential.
COCKRINGS:
The mere presence of a single band around the base of cock and behind
the scrotum can act as a powerful erotic stimulus. To many men it is
part of everyday life. A cockring can be worn continuously without causing
any serious damage or discomfort if not too tight. Choice of material,
degree of weight or tightness is usually a matter of choice - or an
act of submission. Many more complicated pieces of genital bondage equipment
such as sheaths and 'Gates of Hell' are usually anchored onto a C.R.
Therefore two different types of ring should be considered first.
NON-ADJUSTABLE RINGS:
A simple ring of metal, rubber, leather or chain is an inexpensive and
effective stimulator. Even the act of getting a cockring into position
behind the scrotum can be a stimulus in its own right - making it a
pleasurable or painful undertaking. Whether the testicles are put through
the ring before the penis or vice versa depends on personal preference
and practicality. The minimum size of a solid ring is determined by
the possibility of passing one testicle through. First-time users may
find the process difficult, but it is safer to start with a ring too
large rather than too small. What is enjoyably snug one minute can become
excruciatingly (and dangerously) tight seconds later. Veins are very
close to the surface and it's easy to interrupt the blood-flow. Even
so, the C.R. is a popular and widely used device.
ADJUSTABLE
COCKRINGS:
These allow for a tighter circle when in position because they can be
smaller than the diameter of one testicle. Again, tightness for any
length of time is a matter of personal capacity. Adjustment may take
several forms depending on the material.
Four very simple and inexpensive alternatives are:
Short chain, lightweight and rust resistant, perhaps closed with a miniature
padlock allows for a snug fit and a little extra consciousness of weight.
"Jubilee Clip" from an ordinary hardware store is an adjustable
circle of metal strip which can be screwed smaller with a screwdriver.
Psychologically very exciting. This would be an ideal device if it wasn't
so easy for the screwdriver to slip as it's being tightened/untightened.
Also, raw edges of the metal have to be smoothed before use. A very
short screwdriver is advisable.
Disposable plastic 'ties' sold in garden supply shops have a loop in
one end and when the other end is threaded through and tightened it
will not loosen again - and must be cut off. The "Flexicuff"
used by several Police Forces are Big Brothers to this versatile little
item. A packet of them in various sizes is a useful addition to any
Toy' cupboard.
Leather Thong or boot lace has a special appeal for people 'into' leather.
Either knotted or plaited around it has a very different feel to metal
or rubber. If you were a Boy Scout or Girl Guide you already know the
complexities of a 'Turks Head' knot. Fun to put on, and complicated
to tighten - but a unique device. Pubic hair may create problems - but
then again, it may not.
LOCKABLE
COCKRINGS:
When closed these must be small enough to prevent one testicle being
pushed through. Several styles are illustrated. If a screw-lock is used,
pinching must be avoided when being closed. If locked with a padlock,
general movement may cause pinching due to the looseness of the padlock
hasp. A piece of adhesive tape can eliminate this. A nut-and-bolt is
an inexpensive alternative, but is only 'locked' if it's a "tamper-proof"
bolt-head or other more extreme measures are used.
Ordinary padlock with a hasp approximately 2.75 inches wide will usually
lock-around as a heavyweight cockring. Positioned under the scrotum
this is a 'Heavy Trip' particularly when worn under street clothes in
public places. Care should be taken to monitor the effect for short
periods before the wearer is left alone without access to the key. The
same idea is safer if a smaller size padlock is used, locked around
the top of the ball-sack only.
Bull-Rings are special hinged rings and make an interesting alternative.
Designed for piercing through the nostrils of a heavy animal to attach
a lead-chain, they can be closed around the cock-and-balls. A small
screw is then tightened and its head broken off. They're still removable
because the broken screw reveals a screw-slot - but the effect is good.
Unfortunately they come in only relatively large sizes, so can usually
be slipped off. Two other problems are 1) The sharp edge designed for
piercing is dangerously sharp (and no-one should be tempted to try piercing
with it!)... and 2) The hinge when open reveals two sharp corners which
can cut as the ring is closed. Bull-rings are a tempting idea but should
only be used with caution.
SCROTUM
RINGS:
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