'Black Rose'
notes ...
INTRODUCE
MYSELF ... THEN ASK ... WHY ARE YOU HERE?
... - is the question in your mind how to physically prevent or inhibit
active sex and/or self-stimulation? ...
or do the psychological aspects of taking control over someone else’s
sexual self-determination (or surrendering yourself to somebody else)
what interests you? If so, on what sort of scale?
Sexual control trips can range from an occasional titillating light-hearted
deal ... to long-term commitment to a change of lifestyle ... or secretly
seld-imposed.
The aim here is
to stimulate your imagination ... but also encouraged foxused thinking.
FIRST ESSENTIAL
DISTINCTION
Are you thinking about enforced ‘chastity’ for a male or
female?
Technically and psychological ... lots of different points to consider.
NEXT - IN
YOUR MIND WHAT IS A CHASTITY BELT?
As an imagined exotic piece of equipment, whether self-imposed or dictated
by somebody else, this is a great area for the mind to luxuriate in.
What would it look like? What might it feel like?
However, the moment you decide to turn a comfortable fantasy into solid
- sometimes uncomfortable reality -there's a whole range of factors
to consider.
My list of topics
- immediately turn into questions only you can answer.
WHAT DOES
THE WORD CHASTITY MEAN IN YOUR MIND?
NO interactive sex (including anal penetration) ?
NO orgasm or only when ordered?
NO erection, if necessary physically prevented?
NO tactile stimulation whatsoever?
WHY CHASTITY?
In your everyday world what constitutes ‘chastity’?
Self denial?
Lack of opportunity?
Lack of self-esteem?
Lack of sexual drive?
Guilt or religious inhibitions?
Someone else dictating if and when opportunities?
WHETHER
SELF-IMPOSED OR ‘ENFORCED’ ... NEXT
FIVE
HEADINGS OF EQUAL IMPORTANCE =
Visual imagery
Social circumstances
Time scale
Technical considerations
Health and hygiene factors
ALTERNATIVES
TO A CONVENTIONAL 'CHASTITY' DEVICE
Piercing / Abrasion / Diet / Chemistry / Electricity / Athletic spray
(anaesthesia) / Skin stitching / implants and catheters?
FINAL POINT
MUST BE MADE
Don’t play lack of access and ‘irreversible’ locked-on
situation games with no key-holder present until equipment has been
tested and experienced.
TOPICS
RAISED DURING DISCUSSION
at the Black Rose event
ARE EXPANDED SLIGHTLY BELOW